“How do you do it?”
How do I do what?
“When you’re seeing a girl, how do you keep from falling madly in love with her?”
I do fall madly in love with her.
“So then you stop seeing other girls?”
No, because I’m also madly in love with them.
I get asked this regularly.
“I wanna be single, but I keep falling in love. How do you keep yourself from falling in love with just one person?”
How does grass grow.
How are gay men attracted to men.
The answer is: you don’t do ‘it.’ There is no ‘it’ to do.
You ‘are’ it.
You don’t become poly.
You are poly.
Or you aren’t.
Stop trying so hard.