or Ironclad Ideas from Other Sex Wordsmiths (you should know about)


Whenever I reveal that I am polyamorous to someone, the first thing I usually hear is, “I could never do that.” It surprises me when I hear that from almost every monogamist I meet because my first thought upon learning about polyamory and non-monogamy was – “Wow! what a neat concept! I could totally do that.”
http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/12187/redefining-love-embracing-polyamory-and-non-monogamy/


Motion is my religion. I needed to pray.
http://nicoledaedone.com/2012/09/if-you-can-love-it-you-can-tame-it-part-2


I am relatively certain that I am the most “vanilla” person here. (A term that I loathed until a friend pointed out that you can always add sprinkles to vanilla.)
http://goodvibesblog.com/tied-up-wet/


One thing that happens often when I’m 69-ing is that I find my orgasm welling up as my partner’s does. This can be fun, or even more than fun. But it also violates my general preference to control when I cum. Honestly, I think this is mostly healthy: when I lose control of my orgasm, that’s a good thing, not a bad thing, but it’s not always what I crave.
http://mydissolutelife.com/2012/09/69-pro-or-con/


That moment the orgasm has finished ripping through your entire being leaving you grateful but unable to move.
http://heelsnstocking.blogspot.co.uk/2012/09/sinful-sunday-bliss.html


Lust is not a sweet emotion. Lust is not the tender feeling you get when your lover says something that touches your heart. Lust is not about the future, not about plans, not about creating the best possible world for you and your sweetie.
Lust is simple. Lust is greedy. Lust is immediate and possessive. Lust wants what it wants, and does not care who or what gets in the way.
http://minivanlibertine.com/2011/11/07/women-in-lust/


Without thinking, I reach out my tongue and flick it against the volume, careful not to cut myself on the paper.
http://ofsexandlove.com/2012/09/11/bibliophile/


Ben’s high-speed presentation style was once described by a fan as like being ‘skull-fucked with his data-cock.’
http://www.newstatesman.com/blogs/voices/2012/09/trouble-ted-talks


Could he fall in love with somebody else? Sure, but our non-monogamous status doesn’t have much of an effect on that fact. He could also decide to run away and join the circus. There are no guarantees in life.
http://thoughtcatalog.com/2012/being-in-an-open-marriage-is-a-lot-like-being-on-fire/


Why aren’t we given young protagonists that are just normal fucking women, who have fucked normal men in the past? Again and again, we’re given women that are instantaneously orgasmic the moment a (preferably large) penis enters their sacred hallows – sex is never awkward, or a bit clumsy, or features strange noises and body hair and apologies. Sure, that wouldn’t be terribly exciting or interesting (unless it’s purely for comedic value), but it would be nice if just once, someone could have sex, not have an orgasm, and not turn it into a Big Fucking Deal, or a coupon to be redeemed at a later point.
http://www.hotcaramella.blogspot.mx/2012/09/the-explosive-virgin-syndrome.html